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    September 08

    我不知道我这算不算受刺激

    关于婚了的问题。。。。。一早起来看到offor的博,心有戚戚焉,回复的话怕是一大篇,干脆自己也博一个
     
    面对这个问题,我一向羞愧得很。羞愧,但也只是羞愧。那种觉得很对不起父母的感觉,恐怕只比啃老族好一点点;那种对不起观众的感觉,恐怕也只比出门穿成了红配绿好一点点。而且这个问题受众人关注的程度,就跟一件衣服穿反了一样,实在逃不过有心人的眼睛。与众不同,注定是行不通的。
     
    今年春天,本科屋三个一直有bf的mm,像是约好了一样,突然就在差不多的时间婚了。乍闻这个消息,开始也愣了一下,后来一想,已经08年了啊,我们01年进的人大,然后大二大三的时候,这帮好姑娘就接二连三地成了别人专属的好姑娘。再然后,就这么多年了啊。
     
    如花美眷,似水流年。
     
    那种感觉,并没有太多的刺激(可能是因为老是受刺激干脆麻木了的原因哈哈:))。就是觉得茫茫然的仓惶,好像是我们这一茬麦子,就这么呼啦啦地成熟了,尽管还夹杂着一些半青不黄没出息的,也展现出一片金黄的丰收景象。然后,就是收割,入仓,把麦田让给下一茬麦子了。
     
    01级,婚的已经好多好多,生小孩的也好几个了,刺激受多了,也有点麻木。只是那种怅惘的感觉挥之不去。
     
    记得我们刚进人大的时候,一屋子在东区花园衬着雪景照相,后来仿佛再没这么整齐的合影。那些心中充溢着天真的期待和激昂的决心的年华,就这么懵懵懂懂地过去了,然后大家都成了钢筋水泥的社会主义大厦上一块砖,人类延续万载的生命链条中的一个环,人山人海中一个模糊的背影。

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    qiaowrote:
    能刺激你的事情也不多吧
    Sept. 13
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    Bamboo wrote:
    嗯,是像收割麦子,一茬差不多了就赶紧收了,没熟的就大叫,急什么,我这儿还没完呢:P
    Sept. 9
    Kenwrote:
    这个,,这个。。多少人的幸福事和伤心事。。
    才女们。。
     
    Sept. 8
    睿 王wrote:
    嗷嗷爱看你的博。。你还能听啥管风琴音乐会。。
    Sept. 8
    看了这篇 心里真他妈的难过
    尤其是最后一段
     
    Sept. 8

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